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Brenda Joyce Hyde Aubertine

June 25, 2021

Brenda Joyce Hyde Aubertine, 76, of Clayton, NY passed away peacefully on Friday June 25, 2021 at Hospice of Jefferson County.

Brenda was born in Alexandria Bay, NY on March 1, 1945 daughter of Charles W. "Stub" and Almyra Dwyer Hyde. The majority of her youth she grew up in Lowville, NY and graduated from Lowville High School. On June 23, 1967 she married Francis V. "Vinnie" Aubertine at St. Mary's Church, Clayton, NY. Together, with her husband she happily worked side by side on the family farm. Along with the family farm, she also worked for the Thousand Islands School system. After her retirement from the school system, together Brenda and Vinnie opened and operated Cedar Point Country Store.

She enjoyed reading, gardening, canning, and spending time with her children and their families.

She was predeceased by her loving husband Francis Vincent Aubertine. Brenda is survived by her seven children, Jacquelyn M. and Michael Hyland, Cos Cob, CT, Kevin F. and Jane Aubertine, Ontario, NY, Lori A. and Don D'Amico, Pittsford, NY, Dale P. and Ginger Aubertine, Monroe, NC, Carey J. and George McConnell, Clayton, NY, Keith A. and Tracy Aubertine, Clayton, NY and Vincent C. Aubertine, Clayton, NY; fourteen grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren; one uncle and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

The graveside committal service will take place at St. Mary's Cemetery, Clayton, NY on Tuesday, June 29, 2021 at 2 PM with Fr. Ray Diesbourg, pastor of St. Vincent DePaul Church, Rosiere, presiding. Arrangements are entrusted with Cummings Funeral Service, Inc., Clayton, and online condolences to her family may be posted at www.cummingsfuneral.com. In lieu of flowers donations in Brenda's name may be made to Hospice of Jefferson County, 1398 Gotham St., Watertown, NY 13601.


#22 Andrea Bazinet 2021-06-30 06:16
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
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#21 Jennie Bond 2021-06-29 20:29
So very sorry to hear about Brenda. We worked together sat TI Central. We had a lot of fun, shared many moments of laughter! She was a good women. She loved her family.
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#20 Wendy Raines 2021-06-29 20:17
Brenda and Vinnie were great people. They helped me and my daughter's out so much! I will be forever grateful for them both! Brenda loved all her children and grandbabies! I will always cherish our memories and will miss her. Love to you !
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#19 Juliane Aubertine 2021-06-29 17:39
I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. I am.comforted by the idea that she has so many wonderful people to meet her at the gates of heaven. May you be comforted by this during this difficult time.
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#18 SueEllen Garnsey 2021-06-29 09:28
My sincere condolences to Brenda's family. She was such a sweet lady. I had the pleasure of working with her at the school and lunches at Cedar Point market were amazing. Brenda your sweetness will be missed.
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#17 Michael and Colleen 2021-06-28 21:05
We were so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing! Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Aubertine family!
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#16 connie wilson 2021-06-28 10:38
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We always had so much fun in the cafeteria.
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#15 Robert Denner 2021-06-28 10:15
I am so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. I had the pleasure of dealing with her for many years, as I worked for a local bakery and got to talk to her on the phone at the market. She was always one of the best customers I was able to deal with. My one regret was, after almost 10 years of taking orders from her, was never to meet her in person. Rest easy Brenda.
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#14 Terry 2021-06-28 08:29
Having shared in the life of this dear lady was a joy and an honor, even if only for a short time ... she has touched the hearts of so many. She spoke of her family lovingly and absolutely adored her dear husband, I pray for the Lord to provide the strength needed at this time; may your memories bring smiles.
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#13 George Endres 2021-06-27 21:46
Vince and family I'm sorry to hear of your moms passing may she teamsters in peace
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