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Barbara W. Robinson

April 26, 2023

Barbara W. RobinsonBarbara W. Robinson, of 20063 County Rte. 181, LaFargeville, died Wednesday, April 26, 2023, a few days short of her 95th birthday, at her home, surrounded by her family. She had been in declining health for the last few months. Barbara embodied grace, fortitude, and humility, strengths she brought to raising a family, managing varied employment, and giving compassion to those in need. Her leadership and love suffused every endeavor.

Barbara was born May 9th, 1928 in Cape Vincent to Marcelyn Constance and Anthony Wood. The oldest of six children, she learned at an early age how to care for people and thought of her brothers and sisters as her “own” children,  especially Joann, the third oldest, who lived with her during her senior year of high school, and, like Barbara’s own children, graduated from LaFargeville Central.

Barbara attended a one-room schoolhouse in Sand Bay, Cape Vincent through the eighth grade and then graduated from Clayton Central High School in 1945. Afterward, she worked as a long-distance operator for the New York Telephone Company.

She met Harry E. Robinson, son of Wilfred and Beulah Mohan Robinson, while on a blind date with friends. A year later, on Feb. 10, 1947, they were married in St. Mary's Church, Clayton. They moved to LaFargeville where they raised nine children, putting every one through college, all the while operating a family dairy called West Side Stock Farm. 

During those forty years of raising children, Barbara would rise early each morning to complete barn chores before packing school lunches. An astute business person, she kept track of all the farm books, paying the taxes and writing paychecks for the hired hands each Sunday night, right up until she was 85 years old. 

From 1966 to 1978, Barbara worked summers at the Thousand Islands Club, Wellesley Island, in the front desk/switchboard department. From 1986 to 1991, she worked as Deputy Town Clerk for the Town of Orleans Office, along with Town Clerk Patricia Caswell. She had a special devotion to the mission and work of Hospice. As a volunteer for over twenty years, she coordinated and led the monthly Hospice support luncheons in Watertown. 

A devout Catholic, Barbara was deeply involved in her home parish of St. John the Evangelist, LaFargeville. For many years she chaired its major fundraiser, the annual Harvest Turkey dinner held in early November. In addition, she served several terms as a member of the Parish Pastoral Council and as a Parish Trustee.

Barbara’s gardens were a testament to her love of flowers and her artistic spirit. She enjoyed quilting, puzzling, writing and sending cards, and reading in the evenings. When her eyes failed her, she enjoyed listening to books on tape.

More than anything, she loved to dance. Whether at Omar, Guns Corners, or the Getman House, she and Harry and their friends enjoyed dancing many a Saturday night. This love continued as she danced her way through her 90th birthday party five years ago, as well as at her granddaughter’s wedding last summer. 

Even in her later years, music remained a solace, and Willie’s Roadhouse on Sirius Radio provided her much comfort, with her cherished cat, Miss Kitty, curled at her feet.

Harry and Barbara raised nine children: David (Lynette), LaFargeville, Michael (Stephanie), LaFargeville, Donald, Brownville, Anne Walldroff (Wm. Edward), LaFargeville, Rita Walldroff (Marcus), LaFargeville, Gina King (Gregory), Concord, MA, Connie Clements (Robert), Castorland, Craig (Donna), Fairport, and Carla Erice (Anthony), Brooklyn. She is also survived by twenty-two grandchildren, fourteen great grandchildren, one sister and two brothers: Joyce Ivey (Gary Lalonde), Clayton, Charles (Susan), Clayton, and Roger (Sally), Hughesville, Maryland. 

Barbara was predeceased by her beloved Harry who died in January 1993, her step-granddaughter, Tina Tubolino, who died also in January 1993, her mother and father, who died in 1986 and 1987, respectively; and two sisters: Benita Wright, Carlsbad, CA died in March 2022 and Joann Anderson, San Diego, CA died in September 2022.

Arrangements are entrusted with the Cummings Funeral Service, Inc., with calling hours Sunday, April 30, from 4 - 7 PM at St. Mary’s Church, 521 James St., Clayton.  A funeral mass will be held Monday, May 1, at 11 AM at St. Mary’s Church with her son, Rev. Donald A. Robinson, Pastor of Immaculate Conception, Brownville and St. Andrew’s, Sackets Harbor, officiating. Priests of the Diocese of Ogdensburg will concelebrate. A funeral luncheon will follow the mass at the American Legion, Main St., LaFargeville. A private burial will take place at St. John’s Cemetery, LaFargeville.

In planning her own funeral, Barbara requested that no flowers be sent for the wake or mass; instead, donations can be made to Hospice of Jefferson County’s Residence Expansion Project, 1398 Gotham Street, Watertown – in memory of Barbara W. Robinson. Barbara’s diminutive stature belied an indomitable spirit full of affection and generosity, gifts she showered on all she knew and which she bequeathed to her loving children who follow her example, ensuring that it endures. Online condolences to her family may be posted at www.cummingsfuneral.com.


#22 Denise Melton 2023-05-17 17:19
I am so very sorry to hear of Barbara,s passing. She was such a dear friend to me and was such a blessing to me when going through a hard time in my life. We had many good times I will always hold dear to my heart. I will miss seeing her on my trips north. She is with the good Lord and I will see her in the sweet bye and bye. Blessings, Denise
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#21 Pam Nixon-Henderso 2023-05-06 18:49
To Each Member of the Robinson Family,
Your mother, grandmother, great-grandmoth er, sister, and aunt, Barb Robinson, was not only a blessing to you, she was also a positive influence/bless ing to all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Along with you I have wonderful memories of Barb’s loving care, superior management skills, and funny bone.
It’s with a heavy heart we say good bye to Barb on this earth, but we have the hope & promise of heaven.
We can cherish our wonderful memories of Barb and be thankful for the role model she was to each of us.
Barb graciously allowed me to spend countless hours in your home and let me be child #10.
With love & prayers, Pam
PS Bill says, she made a mean apple pie
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#20 Patty BoorasMiller 2023-04-30 11:26
Dear Fatherr Don and all the Robinson family. Your Obit is a beautiful tribute to your mom. She was a great and amazing lady. I first met her years ago working the Harvest dinner and enjoyed visiting with her. I am sure she is at peace now. You all took such good care of her. God Bless -
Patty and Frank Andre
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#19 Letember McDowell 2023-04-28 15:06
Fr. Robinson and family. Please accept our deepest
condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lee McDowell & family
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#18 Tina Foti 2023-04-28 12:27
Fr. Don and The Robinson Family:Our family sends heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beautiful Mom. What a life-what a legacy!
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#17 Pam Buker 2023-04-28 11:59
Robinson Family,
My condolences to you, on the loss of Barbara. Barbara was one of my favorite customers to chat with at the Big M(Shurfine), when she came in. She always had a big smile for me and was just a sweet and kind lady. May your memories of her, help get you through this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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#16 Deanna Smith 2023-04-28 10:37
To the Robinson family: So very sorry for your loss of your mother, grandmother etc. She was a fantastic lady, full of love and charity for everyone. She will be missed, but she is in the heavenly realm now with Christ and His Angels and Saints.

Deanna Lantier Smith
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#15 Barbara Wills 2023-04-28 07:31
The Robinson's were the best neighbors anyone could ask for. Growing up on Clayton Street (as we called it), the farm was right across the street. Mrs. Robinson will be sorely missed, and I cherish the memories of her being part of my childhood. Condolences to all of the Robinson "kids." Such a huge loss.
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#14 Diana Delaney 2023-04-27 22:16
Sending deepest sympathy. In a small town, we learn so much about one another. Barbra was a wonderful person, mom, friend, and mother. She always welcomed people into her home with a beautiful smile and grace. She will be greatly missed.
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#13 Scott Link 2023-04-27 18:33
Barb was always pleasant when my mom and I saw her at Mass. I also worked a couple harvest dinners with her. She was a great lady & lived a remarkable life. My sympathy goes out to her entire family. Rest in peace, Barb.
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